Wedding Toast tips
Wedding couple giving a welcoming toast to guests • Photo by Maring Visuals
Tips for delivering a proper wedding toast
Maid of honor giving a toast at Victory North, Savannah GA • Photo by Maring Visuals
There's nothing quite like the joy and excitement that a wedding day brings. It's a time to celebrate love, commitment, and the start of a new journey as a couple. And what better way to celebrate than with a wedding toast from family and/or close friends?
If you've been asked to give a wedding toast, you might be feeling a mix of excitement and nerves. After all, this is your chance to share your love and well wishes for the happy couple in front of their closest friends and family. But don't worry, with a little bit of planning and preparation, you'll be able to deliver a heartfelt and memorable toast.
First things first, who is giving the toast? Traditionally, the father of the bride, best man, and maid of honor are the ones who give a toast. However, many couples today choose to have multiple individuals give a toast, including siblings, close friends, or even the bride and groom themselves. So, if you've been asked to give a toast, consider it an honor and start brainstorming your ideas.
The bride and groom raising a heartwarming glass • Photo by Maring Visuals
Next, how to write a toast? Start by introducing yourself and your relationship to the couple. Share a personal story or anecdote about the couple that highlights their love and the journey that brought them to this day. Be sure to keep it short and sweet, as the attention should remain on the newlyweds.
Then, offer your well wishes and congratulations. This is your chance to share your hopes and dreams for the couple, both in the immediate future and for the years to come. Highlight the strengths and qualities that make them a great team and express your confidence in their ability to be together as a couple. End the toast with a heartfelt sentiment such as a quote, a poem or a personal message. Raise your glass and invite the guests to join in with a toast to the newlyweds.
One important thing to keep in mind when giving a wedding toast is to have it given where the guests can see both the couple, and the person giving the toast. It's essential that everyone is aware of the moment and can share in the love and happiness of the day.
This wedding ceremony took place under sail, and afterwards a toast was given. • Photo by Maring Visuals
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Did we mention keeping it short? Well, we are going to say it again. A great rule of thumb is that if you have to write it down and read it from a phone or paper your toast is probably too long. There are few things more awkward or painful for guests to endure than an overly long toast especially if more than a couple of toasts are being given.
When it comes to giving a welcoming speech or toast, it's important to remember that it's not about perfection, but about conveying your love and gratitude. It’s not the time to tell an entire life story. Get to the point, say it from the heart, and raise a glass. If you keep these simple things in mind you’ll be a star when it comes to giving the perfect toast.
The best man’s toast at a wedding at Victory North in Savannah, GA • Photo by Maring Visuals
